Being Graceful

Being graceful or being beautiful… What weights more… ?

One can evaluate what weights more only when one knows the exact difference between the two..

Gracefulness is an idea not very different from beauty;

Beauty is subjective so l will not talk about it in today's post in detail.

What I wish to elaborate is the essence of being graceful…

When a woman is graceful along with being beautiful then these are the added diamonds on her crown..!

See, the Dictionary meaning of the word - Graceful definition," characterized by elegance or beauty of form, manner, movement, or speech"

So basically it involves elegance in the behavior.. softness in personality..

Also Gracefulness can be an idea belonging to movements. For a ladies to be graceful, it is requisite that they do not appear as sharp and sudden in behavior and there is much of delicacy of attitude and motion in the way she talks, walks, acts, etc the way a river flows.. !

If you want to be graceful then

Read the classics. The philosophers, ancient and contemporary. Read autobiographies of those who are of interest to you. Immerse yourself in a world that you perceive as graceful. Understand their messages, adopt the principles which speak to you most… and you’ll soon find yourself more graceful..

Why is this important? I understand you're into ladylikeness, style, grace, elegance, poise, class, and glamour... but is it truly necessary to devote a whole post to the art of being graceful? Constantly, I see women behaving in a completely loud manner. Etiquette isn't about personal comfort; it is about respect for yourself and those around you… You will feel like a lady when you behave in a classy way, and people will treat you like one..

It's a respectable trait. It's a major contrast from lets say a woman that goes beserk when something isn't going as planned.

If a woman can be calm in the face of adversity and find a solution, it puts a man at ease and subconsciously it's attractive to men.

Granted not every man has that compulsion but If you have that talent or trait. It's a valuable skill that most of them admire!

Being graceful is what every woman dreams to be ...its is something innate ..which can be developed in long run ..so here are few things which might help you

Develop respect ..not only for others but you need to respect yourself!

Always wear that smile on your face ..no foul words ..no rude behaviour.. no attitude ..you need to speak very softly, be polite and be specific.

Good manners is a must.

Dress appropriately.. A classy women is always comfortable in whatever she wears ...No provocative clothes

No show off ..No gossip ..no nagging..

Being independent is a characteristic feature of a lady.

A thorough knowledge of everything(read newspapers ,magazines).

Always be confident ..You are a woman and be proud of it ..

Personal hygiene is a must ( brush your teeth twice a day, proper skin care, Light make-up ..depends on how you want to present yourself ..but you should look elegant..

Be a woman with quality.. and quality comes with education .. invest in education!

P.S. - ladies, No need to wear gold ornaments at all. If a lady is radiating grace through herself.. even gold will lose its charm..!

Grace can make her exemplarily attractive!

-Dr. Aishwarya More

Satara